To But Or Not To But...

a lot of frustrations in the office lately...
criticisms aplenty...
was talking to another head about this...
and we prefer something like this...

"dave ah... i can see that you guys have put in a lot of effort into this project... but there are some areas which i think could be improved..."

instead of...

"dave ah... there are many areas that are lacking in this project..."

but when it comes to love relationships... we prefer...

"dave ah... i don't think we are suitable for each other..."

instead of...

"dave ah... you have been doing a lot for me and i do like you to a certain extent... but hor... i don't think we are suitable for each other..."

the dilemma in life...